Last night, my rehab worker rang me to see if I wanted to attend a talk with him today. He was doing it for the RNIB down in Colleraine. I said yeah i would. He was going to ask another guide dog owner, but she hasn’t been too well lately, so he asked me instead.
Before I get to today though, the past couple of days have been rather weird.
On Monday I was going to my quilting course as usual. It was windy but it wasn’t raining thankfully. We got to about the second house, when Ushi stopped. There was a car in front of us, but this was a wee bit back from the car. I had to get really firm with her, and eventually she did go, but it just took a hell of alot of time before she went. She hasn’t stopped like this in ages. Once we got by the car she was grand.
On the way back from town she was grand and walked past it.
I got my sister and dad to come with me for my second walk to see what the problem was. Again the same thing happened. She had passed this particular car loads of times so i don’t know what the problem was. It was just at that one car.
Yesterday I tried experimenting a little. Instead of going straight up to the kerb outside our house like i’d usually do, I just turned right at the end of our driveway to see if that helped. I also gave her a treat at the end of the first corner. I hardly ever give her treats on our walks, but thought she might need a little incentive to go forward. That worked a treat! She worked like a little angel! I even had an opportunity to do some educating!
There is this pathway that is like a shorter version of the church route. It cuts a big chunk out of it but still makes it a decent route. I was only doing this way as i didn’t want to do a the full thing. A family were coming out of where I was going. I thought maybe they had a dog with them (who knows why), so stopped to let them past. The father/grandad was chatting away to me, and saying about how he’d seen me going up and down the road. He had kids with him. I asked if the kids would like to pet the dog, and explained that you must always ask a guide dog owner before petting. They seemed interested, but didn’t rush up to pet the dog or anything which was good. They left shortly after that, but I thought it was good.
Unfortunately on our second walk of the day though we ran into a bit of a problem. We had just done the church route, but I wanted to do a little extra path my sister had shown me which eventually took me onto my block route home. We were about to do it when I heard two dogs fighting. They were apparently across the road, but i thought they were just up ahead. My sister said it was a wee stray dog that was fighting with another dog on its lead. As soon as I heard the tell tail signs, I turned and headed straight home. Luckily we were a bit away from them, but i deffinetly wasn’t going to risk Ushi getting caught up in it. I hope the poor wee thing was okay.
Part of me just feels rather silly the way i react to other dogs, but i really don’t want Ushi going through such a horrible thing as before.
Anyway on to today….
My rehab worker was going to be collecting me at about half 12, so I decided to do a walk before chilling for a while. I just did a short walk, as I wasn’t sure if the little dog from last night was still around. Again though we had no stops, and she walked me around lots of bins and such. Normally she sort of will stand at a bin sometimes as if to say “what do you want me to do about it?”. So it was a good if short walk.
We came back and chilled for a while then until my rehab worker came to collect me.
I decided to experiment with something. I’m not sure if i’ve mentioned this, but whenever Ushi would get out of a car, she would pull quite a bit. It would be quite bad until we sat down somewhere. I thought it wasn’t fair on people guiding me, and i also felt that it probably didn’t look that good when the guide dog was pulling. So I slipped the Halty on. I then took her to spend and once I took the halty off, there was no pulling at all! So maybe putting the halty on before getting out of the car is good? The only problem would be if she was in the boot of a car. I don’t know what i’d do then. I suppose before we set off i could stick it on at least until i’d spent her? She doesn’t seem to pull on trains or busses. Not that i’ve noticed anyway!
The RNIB had a spending pen! I didn’t put Ushi in it though as i knew she wouldn’t use it. I was a bit disappointed though since i thought that I may as well have used it since it was there, but I knew Ushi wouldn’t use it so just used grass instead. How typical though that it was available though but she would just have to be awkward and not like going on concrete!
We got settled in on a nice comfy sofa lol. It was just a very informal talk really. Ushi settled almost straight away which was good.
There were about 20 people there in the group. They were all quite elderly and were mostly newly diagnosed as blind or partially sighted.
My rehab worker first of all talked about the myths about owning a guide dog, and tried to dispell them. He also talked about things like the enquiry visit and stuff that you will have if you apply for a guide dog.
Next, he passed over to me. I hadn’t prepared anything, so just said basically that I didn’t know where to start, and that I would just go with the flow. I talked about when I applied, that there were different stages of the guide dog application, and when I got matched with Ushi. I told them what a difference she has made, but ran out of what to say then lol.
The floor was then opened up for questions.
One person came over and i said he could pet the dog if they wanted. They didn’t really like dogs, so I just talked to him and said that you must ask always before petting a dog.
What happened next was quite weird. I understand if the woman was scared of dogs, but I don’t know if she was or not. Anyway she came over and was like “he is lovely” and all. I said that actually she was a she and then the woman was like “It’s not nice for ladies to lick people” or something then she went over and very quickly washed her hands. I don’t know what was up. I never said anything to her, but it did seem a little weird. I mean if you put your hand down to a dog will it not lick you? Who knows.
Our talk lasted for about half an hour. We didn’t have to rush off, so we stayed for another talk by the
Talking Newspaper For Colleraine
They talked about basically what was on the CDS, and that they would provide a CD player and all if you didn’t happen to have one.
We went home after that. It was a good afternoon.
On Friday I might be going to a volunteer event. There is a street collection in Limavady although i said i wasn’t going because i feel it’s too soon to be doing street collections, but I said i would be happy to sit in a coffee shop and encourage volunteers lol.
So if I do go up, i will probably bring something along with me until the event at 1 o’clock. There will be other guide dog owners there too.
I’ll let you know how I get on.
I’m pleased with how the talk went though. I’m sure over time i won’t need to prepare anything.